Early 30’s she met her husband. Married but after one year the sex was routine/boring. 30% of women lose interest in sex with their partner after a year: for many reasons. But she loves her husband more than anything in the world. In her 50’s she considered having an affair but decided against it. Now in her 70’s she still loves her partner very much. She had sex about 3 times a week. She loved touching him & being with him.
Do you judge her or are you strong enough to handle the truth? Secure enough in yourself to know that no one is perfect including yourself? Mature enough to know that people evolve and grow? Kind enough to thank her for her honesty. Man enough to say:’I wish I’d made this easier for you?’
SO, good luck😊 But don’t ruin a good marriage with doubts & fear. If she’s cheated on you - it’s highly unlikely she would confess to her past life. Why would she? It would only make you suspicious …
Hello,hope y'all doin good, i came to Quora to share my strange story , a very weird one , a story when luck smiled at me ,maybe u will enjoy it , let's begin,have fun...
A year ago ,I was a real porn addicted(btw I was 18) ,but never had sex before, I don't have a gf I didn't try to find one even ,always thinking to go to find a sex worker but then I just don't , everyday watching different bodies getting fucked and everyday enjoying.
One day, I was watching porn, a big ass lady with big boobs ,just after seeing her the image of my female cousin poped in my mind, (let's introduce her : she's 35 years old , very big ass , nice boobs ,not very big but nice,always wearing tight clothes , she's divorced ) and I thought of me fucking her ,I never had sexual desires for her but now I do days went by and when I met her I was so horny ,I couldn't stay with the family cz my penis was clearly erected , I realized this is my first time I get horny for one of my family ,it not illegal in my country.well to make a long story short( if u want details just text me I will tell u 😊),I decided to give her signs that I want to fuck her,finally I decided to have sex and with my cousin , I thought it is the best beggining for me, i started touching her when I came across her in a narrow place , make her feel my hard cock when we hug , I thought it will hard and I will be ashamed but no , I felt nothing and she said nothing , probably she thought it was by mistake,anyways, I decided then to talk with her about sex, waited for her to be alone in a room and talk with her, I confessed everything about me watching porn and addicted..etc,she said it's normal and u are growing up and u must have sex,well at that time I was like whaaat????? Well I didn't control myself and asked her for sex ( horny like I Ve never been before) she said that she will think Abt it ,2 weeka went by then she called me ,telling that she reserved a room in a hotel and we meet tonight ,we met,and bruuhh, sex is great , I mean, I had to find a pirstitue ,what I was waiting for to have such a feeling ????, I will never forget that night, I started kissing her she was kissing hard ,she misses sex so bad , she sucked my dick and swallowed my semen ,I felt I'm in a dream , then when fucked ,her ass was very big and the anus was open ,didn't struggle to get my hard cock inside it , she was obviously missing sex , she was shouting ,fuck me yh fuck me , I go fast after every word until I cum , we did that 3 times , then we went to her pussy , using condoms I fucked her so hard the moans were higher , everything was perfect ,in the end I asked her to lick her body , licked pussy ,ass, boobs,then she sucked my cock until we sleeped ,all I know that she was dirty ,well before even having sex with her I knew she is an open minded woman , and a woman that looks that she donesnt know anything , but she knows everything, but never expected having sex with her ,well she was horny and that helped...but no one of us regretted that sex ever..
We still have sex from time to time ,and I started having sex with sex workers , joining threesomes..etc
If u want pics of her text me.
You’ll be ok & the two of you will get through this👍
Yes I understand that you’re shocked and scared that she may betray you. And it’s reasonable for you to wonder - who this woman is I’ve married? Is she trustworthy? But also have a think (& discussion) about her childhood. Did she have a very difficult, rejecting relationship with her father? It’s not unusual for women who have had that to have many sexual & overlapping relationships. This doesn’t mean every woman who has multiple partners or is unfaithful has had such a relationship. It’s perfectly normal for women, like men, to explore & enjoy their sexuality before they settle down.😀 So it could easily have been sexual exploration.
SO, she has never told him about her earlier experiences. Personally, I think this is wrong. Not because he would have rejected her: he wouldn’t. But because I think the deeper intimacy comes from knowing who your partner is. And then accepting them for who they are.
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I can answer this from the other view point. My friend had many sexual relationships in her 20’s. Some of the men were married or engaged. Some of these relationships were intermittent but on going over many years. She did therapy and learnt that she was looking for love through sex. Not unusual.
Your wife didn’t cheat on you. But she clearly thought that you’d find this difficult to accept & scared that you would judge her.
